The internet is a vast resource. Unfortunately, you can also find a wealth of misinformation as well. For instance, people suffer from premature ejaculation if they cannot above 2 minutes, but a study revealed that, on average, men only last for 5.4 minutes.
There are so many myths surrounding sex out there and I want to debunk them in this article so that you will be well-informed.
1.Sex is Pretty Much Like in the Movies
Sex is about two partners making love. You might see in various porn videos, TV series, and movies that sex should last longer or perhaps you should use lubricants and other clichés that you can see when consuming the media.
However, that is not the case in the real world. Sex is quite fast-paced in the sense that you rarely have the time to think about something else. It is more of a matter of foreplay then penetration, then you’re done.
Although you can introduce other elements into the mix such as adding sex toys, vibrators, lubricants and creams, and so much more, for the most part, sex is unlike those videos or movies that you see.
2.Condoms Are Unappealing
Condoms are one of the best contraceptives that a man can use. Not only can it protect your girl from being pregnant (because unwanted pregnancies are the worst!); it can also help men with premature ejaculation and other sexual dysfunctions as well.
Men who do not want to use a condom just do not know how to use it properly. There are several different kinds of condoms- ribbed, thick, dotted, etc. All you have to do is try them out and see what works best for you.
Condoms also provide you with peace of mind so that you can focus more on the present than worrying about getting your partner pregnant when you’re not using one.
3.Sex Should Last for Hours
This is one of the most longstanding sex myth out there. This is further perpetuated by the fact that this is depicted in porn more than in the real world.
The truth is that sex should last depending on the people who are involved in it. Some couples want sexual intercourse to be well within 3-7 minutes, while others prefer more than 10. It is really up to the partners what they consider to be a considerable amount of time for sex.
Also, women do not want too long a sex session since it is too boring and would much rather want things to end quickly. So, how long sex should last is more of a preference thing.
4.Sex Toys Are for Lonely People
Nope. In fact, adding sex toys to your regular love-making session actually makes it more fun and dynamic. You can experiment with them and it will add to the emotions that you will feel during sex.
Don’t believe me? A 2009 study published at the University of Indiana discovered that 53% of women and 45% of men between the ages of 18-65 actually prefer using a vibrator during sex to further enhance the sensations that they feel.